I Couldn't Say No
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About the Book
For people that know early on what they want to be in life, whether doctor, lawyer, engineer or accountant, their career pursuit is easy. But for the vast majority, the undecided, they must choose their slot in life differently. They do this through the experience of rejecting a host of jobs that for one reason or another just do not fit. Nobody learned this hard lesson better than the author. In I Couldn't Say No, the writer shows his often painful experiences going from apprentice field engineer to expediter, from a series of sales jobs, to milkman and from bartender to store manager trainee. Through a federal jury assignment and a stroke of luck his destiny changed. At age thirty-one with six years of marriage and a family of four, he finally found what he was looking for when he took a police officer's exam in Elmhurst, Illinois and passed. Originally it was to be temporary until he could land a Border Patrol job...instead it was a happy twenty-year career. The story also tells of his childhood growing up Irish Catholic during the Depression and WWII, of his devilish exploits as a teen-ager, his military life in the Army of Occupation in Japan, the dating years, culminating with meeting a sweet Irish lass from Chicago, their marriage and family, and their early economic struggles. Later, the author proves what can be accomplished by dedication. Unable to complete his college at night school because of interruptions by police department shift assignments, he finds by perseverance and the urging of his daughters, he is finally able to earn a college degree at age fifty-two. The truthful tale as he remembers it, with its characters and dialogue, reads like a work of fiction. With its colorful anecdotes, it has warmth and humor, but more importantly, it shows the dogged determination the author had in finding success, excitement and happiness both as a police officer and later as an international airline employee.
About the Author
Charles O’Reilly spent the first 29 years of his life as a Chicago resident – except for his military service time. Following WW II, he and countless other returning GI’s moved to the suburbs where they bought starter homes and began raising the Baby Boomer generation. Before this, however, he received fourteen years of education in Chicago Catholic schools. In 1950, he left De Paul University to take a manufacturing job with Motorola on Chicago’s West Side. It was there that he met Patt Ormiston, a charming and attractive executive secretary. After dating for only three months, he asked for her hand in marriage. She accepted. On June 27, 1953 they were married. Later, with a growing family pushing out the walls of their tiny city apartment, they moved out to Lombard, Illinois into a newly built home. But it was not all hearts and flowers. Chuck had struggled in the business world causing a strain on their finances. They were about to lose their home. Finally, after serious discussion, Patt gave Chuck a chance to fulfill a dream. She signed a mandatory permission slip to allow him to become a career police officer. Today, when asked how he contended with the frustrations and rigors of the job, Chuck is quick to reply, "This was the best job I ever had--very fulfilling. Besides, I always enjoyed playing cops and robbers." In 1979 following retirement, he began a second career with United Airlines. "I never had to ask a partner to lay down his life for me," Chuck said. "But over 15 years there were enough thrills and excitement driving between moving aircraft to suit me. The pay and perks were good and I had an opportunity to work with some great people." This is Chuck O’Reilly’s first attempt at a published work. However, writing lengthy case reports as a police officer, completing correspondence courses for his final years of college and as a member of the Writer’s Group at the College of Du Page for the past five years have sharpened his writing skills. Today, Chuck and Patt, happily married for forty-seven years, reside in Du Page County, Illinois. Their family includes four children and seven grandchildren.