The Secret to Finding Love

Sometimes in life there is a pivotal moment, a moment that changes everything.  I want this to be that moment for you.  It was a moment just like this that changed my life forever, a moment that catapulted me into a place where magic and miracles are the order of the day.  At the time, I knew what I was learning was momentous, but even in my wildest dreams I couldn’t grasp the magnitude of it.  Only time could show me how magically a life could be changed by the information I am about to share with you.  So please, open you mind and give yourself the opportunity to live the life of your dreams complete with the kind of love you probably haven’t even dared to dream of.

Since you are holding this book, I am guessing that you are not now involved in a loving, totally happy and committed relationship that is giving you everything your heart desires.       

Perhaps you have been disappointed in love.  Maybe to this point you just haven’t met the guy who makes your heart sing, and you are starting to wonder if he even exists.  I’m here to tell you that he does exist, and he is out there somewhere waiting for you.  The difficult part of the equation is the alignment of your lives so the connection between the two of you can be made.  That’s what this book is all about.  Helping you create the life that will make it happen.

I have spent more than two decades searching for the answer to why we get what we get in life.  This quest has led me to discover things so amazing that they have changed my life completely.  What I learned is so incredible and yet so simple, that I want to share it with you.  I promise that what I have to tell you can absolutely bring you the elusive love you’ve been longing for.  Really, truly, honestly.

My goal here is to take from all that I have learned what is appropriate to help me create a simple, brief, easy-to-read guide designed to provide a step-by-step method for manifesting perfect love that up to this point in your life has been so elusive.

I am sure that you hold a set of beliefs about the way life works, what is right and wrong, what is appropriate to expect to have and achieve, and even how worthy or unworthy you are.  These set of beliefs are mainly the result of things you have been told.  But what you were told is just somebody else’s beliefs likely passed down for generations.  Maybe they are true, maybe not.  One thing I know for sure is that just because somebody believed something, even somebody we love and admire, that doesn’t necessarily make it right.

I’m going to ask you to open your mind to the possibility that there are other truths, maybe ones that can change your life for the better.  They may be so completely different from anything you have heard before that you will need time to absorb them.  If so, that’s OK.  Just relax, keep an open mind, and come along for the ride.  It’s a great ride!  Please, let me tell you a story, a true story about what was really intended for you, about the amazing power you possess, and then let’s talk about how you can use it to create the life you want.

Let me begin by saying that the answer to finding your soul mate is actually very simple.  Yes, simple.  In fact, it’s as basic as wanting him completely, totally with all your heart and mind; wanting to the point that it becomes the focal point of your life.  Wanting so much that your imagination can conjure up a picture of your life with him at will, complete with the feelings of loving him.  How much more simple than that could it be?

Everywhere you look today – TV, on-line, magazines – article after article all seem to focus on the so-called “plight” of single women in today’s society.  More attention is given to the million ways to stay young forever than to finding your soul mate.  Oh, for the good old days when marriages were arranged by your father who was more than willing to trade you for a couple of sheep or a bag of gold.  At least then you didn’t have to worry about being left behind when all your friends seemed to be settling into married bliss.

In today’s world, women have opportunities never even imagined by their grandmothers.  We are better educated, better dressed, and better traveled.  There are no professions that the western woman cannot take part in and compete in with their bigger, stronger, male counterparts.  In fact, when it comes to education, women are often better and smarter than their male peers, generally taking more awards in all fields of endeavor. 

Still, deep in almost every one of us, regardless of how successful we may be on the professional front, is a desire, maybe even a longing, for a happy, fulfilling, loving relationship with that special man, the one who will make your heart sing.  No amount of professional success, it seems, can take the place of a warm smile and pair of strong, warm arms at the beginning or end of the work day.  Since that is the case, why is it that so many of us who have managed to find everything else we want have so much trouble attracting the