Emily's Story
What Should I Say or How Should I Say It?
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The most important responsibility God gave to mankind is procreation. God created and chose women to bare, nurture and raise children. Women are the bedrock of the world because what we teach and instill in our children ultimately determines the condition of the world in which we all live. The divine connection that starts in the womb creates a direct channel for sharing love, attitudes, thoughts and emotions between a child and a mother. It is similar to our hearts being transformed by the love of God and His Spirit living within us. The journey of motherhood is so important, that I have chosen to tell my story of what I have learned in my years of being a parent, grandparent and now a great-grandparent. If we as mothers miss the purpose of the seed, our children, and fail to nourish them so they properly grow and develop in the image of God, then they will ultimately grow into adulthood not knowing their divine purpose for which they were born. Children who are not properly nurtured, find it difficult if not impossible to determine their purpose in life, understand what is desired of them and many times fall prey to the whims of the society in which they live. We do not always see that we already have enough for our children just by being who we are to them, their parents. What they need from us most of all is relationships. Each child is different and requires specific personal attention. It is not the material things we can give them but the love, cuddling and listening moments that makes them feel special. Each child has a different nature, their own ideas, and levels of understanding. A mother must learn how to study and observe each child, discover their strengths and challenges, and know how to help each one move forward. The comments of praise and approval of their accomplishments regardless how small or insignificant you might think of it, gives a child confidence in themselves. We must realize that every child has a purpose, and it is our responsibility to instill hard work, encourage them to study and be prepared, and never accept the word “can’t” but teaching that nothing is impossible with God. As flawed human beings with a lack of understanding of the human heart, we will never get it all right as a mother or even as parents. Motherhood is an endless journey, and every woman who has children will have a story! I struggled with many high and low points and had to trust God in making hard decisions. My children were wounded by their father but also by me as their mother because I did not see them as individuals. They carried the scars into adulthood that could only be healed by God and my apologies. If a child has been wounded or rejected by anything a mother has said or done to them, they will carry the hurt into adulthood which will impact how they love and mature. If this is part of your story, apologize so the healing can begin. When we do our best in nurturing and raising our children using the directions that God provided, He will continue to build on that foundation and finish the work in their lives.
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About the Book
I chose to write this book because as I look back over my life, I often wonder why God took a girl of no reputation or knowledge about life and placed her into the hands of a man who thought he had all knowledge and experience for handling his life. He had the ability to manipulate others to fill the deep void in his own life even though he was unaware of it. In the midst of this union between two people of vastly different backgrounds, came the birth of six children. The storms, at times, were fierce and left footprints in the soil of our beings. Yet God orchestrated our lives according to His plan and purpose for each of us. As we journeyed forward, God allowed the grass to gradually grow and cover up the soil causing the footprints to slowly fade. He gradually stripped away those things that held our heart, mind, and spirits captive. Reflecting back, I thank God for bringing me through to this age in my life. Because I can truly see and embrace the reality of His Truth. I know His blessings follow me even when I do not recognize them. I have learned that when you are in a storm, look up to find the rainbow. That is God. As I write this book, many years of experience are now in my past. I hope when you read this, it will draw you closer to the Lord Jesus Christ. I also hope it will remind you of who truly holds your tomorrows, and nothing is impossible with God. He is always working things out in His own time frame for your good. I wrote this book to give hope and encouragement to the woman who chooses to read it.
About the Author
Emily Janet (Robinson) Coopwood, born the morning of June 14, 1931 in Gary, Indiana at 2121 Jefferson St. on National Flag Day, lived her early years during the depression. Her parents were Walter Robinson and Mary Ruth (Brown) Robinson. Her mother was born in 1903 in Augusta, Ga and father was born in Buford, NC. Her Grandmother Connor was an entrepreneur in the early 1900’s. Even during that time of segregation, she owned a home and a small business. When Emily’s Grandmother Connor’s husband died, she sold her home and business and moved to Evanston, Il. In 1915, Emily’s grandmother and mother settled in Gary, Indiana which was a mixed steel mill area of town that used horses and buggies for transportation. Emily was the youngest of four children. Her parents’ first-born daughter died at an early age. She lived her life with an older sister, Hardina and brother, Walter. Her father, who was very gentle, quiet, and a great dancer, died when Emily was 7 years old. Emily lived a great life growing up even after her father died. She attended Roosevelt School, the only school for blacks in Gary during that time, from kindergarten through 12th grade, graduating in 1949. The change in Emily’s life journey began with the death of her brother Walter. Emily met and married her husband of 67 years in 1950 and they had six children. She attended Purdue University and became a Licensed Practical Nurse in 1955, retiring her license in 2010. Emily currently lives in Woodbridge, Virginia where she continues to spend time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Emily’s compassion for children is reflected in her continued giving to organizations that help poor and disadvantaged children throughout the world.