The Chinese Lady had no name – at least, not one I could pronounce. She was surprising tall and large-boned for a Tan Chinese. I suspected that our hosts had strategically chosen her for this reason, since I was probably the largest man they had ever seen. She seemed to be in her early twenties, she had the typical coarse dark hair and dark eyes, and she had the also typical crooked teeth. Still, she wasn’t unattractive and she seemed thoroughly dedicated to taking care of my every need.
The setting was a banquet in our honor; my coworker, our translator, and myself. It was held in a small, private banquet room in a nightclub owned by our hosts, the main principles of a local construction company. The city was Dalian, China, a city of six million people in Northeast China, near the North Korean border.
To be honest, I never liked these banquets. Not because they weren’t enjoyable, but because I always felt compromised by the situations that generally occurred. Still, if we were going to do business in China, I felt that we had to honor our hosts by enjoying their hospitality. I had read the books on China and knew that GuangXi (goodwill) was very important here. Our hosts looked forward to these banquets, as they were one of the few luxuries of their bleak existence. Hence, after several previous invitations, I had reluctantly agreed to attend.
The room had a round table with a rotating platform in the center for the sharing of the delicacies that where unveiled: sea cucumber, sea conch, squid, chicken feet, sea snake soup, deep-fried fish, boiled crab, prawns, beef, pork, etc. And of course, the meal was washed down with plenty of TsingTao pijou (beer) in one-liter, green bottles. A sign of a good host was for your glass to be filled to the brim at all times.
Besides we four, there were two other young ladies, an older woman who was the Assistant General Manager, and two other men. As the food orgy began, there were the prerequisite toasts, or Gam Bei’s. These were different from normal toasts because each participant was expected to drink the entire glass and, being good hosts, they would immediately refill the glass to the brim in preparation for another toast. Our hosts took turns toasting us so that I had a real buzz on before we got to the main course. The trick was to eat as much as one could in order to please the hosts and to help absorb the alcohol.
The Chinese Lady wore black slacks and a fluffy, white blouse with sleeves that extended down over the palms of her hands so that only her fingers were exposed. I noticed that she was always careful to maintain the position of the sleeves in the fully extended position. She and the two other young ladies were being paid ($12 each) by our hosts to be our escorts for the evening. We, on the other hand, had just come from work and were still in our work uniforms. We were dirty and smelly after a long day in the factory but after a few toasts no one seemed to notice.