Truths About Success

Attitude

“Pity a man who inherits a million and is not a millionaire. Here’s what would be pitiful, if your income grew and you didn’t” Jim Rohn. Success is first conceived on the inside and carried out during the life time of the vision writer.   Persistence gives confidence and continued right mental attitude followed by consistent action will bring success. When you have that understanding inside you, fear has vanished and the obstruction to a life of all good things removed. The attitude of a person has got nothing to do with the situation around them or the problems they have faced before, but the mind set of that individual. We are all responsible for how we feel on the inside, this is what so many people have failed to realize at a young age. It is easy to say, “I feel down”, “people don’t like me”, “I cannot seem to get it right” or “My life is all a mess”, but remember that you are not the only one going through something and you will never stop going through stuff until you die. Quit moaning and sulking as though you were the only one facing an issue, start doing something about your situation. All the successful people around the world have all at one point or the other felt the way you may feel but their decision to be positive look on the bright side and push for glory is what has allowed them to be successful. It is still you with the bad family background or broken home or even the one without a good degree, the difference is in your attitude which only you can control.

The life of Abraham Lincoln epitomizes what a good attitude can do; it affects not only the destiny of a man but that of the world in which he lives. This was a man who had to fight his way through life, from child hood his parents who were once comfortable in terms of wealth, lost all they had due to amassed debt. Unlike most of us out there, he only had 18months of formal education, everything he knew he read from books and from his environment. In all of this he said to himself, “I will study and be ready and my opportunity will come”. In the face of uncertainty, in an unfamiliar territory, Mr Lincoln chose to be strong for himself, he decided that he will be prepared and when the opportunity arises he will take it with two hands. This is the attitude of a champion and a man that can develop it can be assured of success.

In the story of Moses, we can see that in the wilderness, where there is turmoil and no clear source of inspiration, where ambition is killed and dreams are lost, Moses like Abraham Lincoln decided to prepare and be ready, it was there he learnt the art of leadership; he gained vast experience for years tending flocks. This was not the ideal situation in his mind, it was not the best way to prepare but it was the only way for him. The same goes to you and me, we create pictures and images of what we want for ourselves, expectations are borne from these images and we get excited in spells about what we can become. If there is one thing that Genesis 1 v 1 teaches so well, it is the sweet truth that life is like a lump of clay and you make of it what you want it to be. The fact that things do not look like what you hoped for does not mean it is impossible to achieve, it only means there is a need to be positive and willingness to put in the effort to create the desired picture.

In a film I recently watched, ‘Remember the Titans’, a member of a team had an argument with the team captain. In the course of that altercation the former said “attitude reflects leadership...”, that statement has stuck with me since then - for me it means whatever determines your attitude is what controls you. A positive attitude always wins the day and whatever you give will return to you in multiples, only you can decide what your day and wholly your life brings to you. The decision to smile every day, the choice to be happy no matter the result, the resolution not to give up is what has made the likes of Abraham Lincoln, Peter Daniels, Barack Obama, Nelson Mandela and many others - to stand out. 

Some people may say they are realists, they tell it how they see it, the truth of the matter is reality is relative to individuality, what may be real to one may not be to another, that does not mean that anyone is wrong but it means that what you see as a bad deal may be a very good deal, an opportunity for me may sound like danger to you. There is a saying in the bible, “As a man thinks in his heart so he is”, these words remind me every day that whatever I think about my life is what it is, and same applies to my day. The attitude we display affects how we feel physically and mentally, it definitely affects how successful you are in achieving your goals. “You can never outperform what you see of yourself” (Mike Murdock).

Finally, attitude should be the same to everyone and everywhere, this shows integrity and it endears people to us.

It is quite easy to say that attitude is so important to success and the role it has played in life of many all time greats including Moses. However, a negative attitude is not born overnight, no one is born with a bad attitude or mindset, the fact is that we develop it over time. Many times we know what is expected of us at different times, however……